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Shyness?

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I have been going to Meetup.com meetings, 5 times each week for the past two weeks.

I used to go to a Shyness/Anxiety group, but I no-longer do.

The Shyness/Anxiety group enabled me to talk in front of the group, and learn to feel comfortable with the other people in the group.

Three weeks ago, I allowed myself to be, basically, forced into social situations with people I thought highly of, (basically, my brother and his friends).
At the end of that week,(two weeks ago), I was both ready and motivated to work on my social skills by attending a variety of “meet-ups” with people who either weren’t shy or I didn’t know they were shy.

These people were all strangers to me.
I’ve managed to get in the process of making one new friend. This has meant that we do stuff outside of the structure of a group.-very helpful and fun too.
Some of the people in these ‘non-shyness groups’, actually seem more shy, than people in the Shyness/Anxiety group.

Sometimes I have had to push myself to attend a meeting, remain at a meeting, and talk/listen to people.

And so my social skills and confidence have improved during the past three weeks, but I still have a long way to go before I’m as comfortable as I believe I need to be.
-for e.g. I still need to be the person who initiates receiving/giving contact information to a potential friend. (exchanging business cards with someone who is only a possible contact, doesn’t count, for me).

After a year of this socializing, I expect to feel at home in the ‘social world’ or at least have made a significant improvement in my skills.

Point: I neither want, nor expect, to make $12trillion and mostly always feel happy, by spending most of my life, by myself.

(Worth mentioning http://www.meetup.com was formed, I believe in NYC. Many people are starting groups under the ‘Meetup.com’ umbrella and making money by helping/allowing others who have same interests to get together. There are so many big cities in USA where entrepreneurs could make lots of cash. There’s a few large cities in Canada too. It seems like there’s tons of meetup.com groups here in Toronto, and I’m sure that at least a couple of the organizers of the groups are making a good bunch of cash from the the groups they administer. There are several meetup.coms in U.S.A., but I don’t have a record of where, exactly.) d

Life etc

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Well apparently I just put up another page instead of a post.

The page, If u can find it, was about me making certain that I was getting the service I was told I was getting.

Presently, my computer is on the blink again. So now I get to spend more time making friends, something I’m lacking… I “tend to trust friends more because I know better what to expect from them”.

That’s as close to what Trey Mills, music manager/producer of “Makeshift Innocence” and “Trinity Bradshaw” told me recently, and I agree.

Also, while my computer is being repaired, I’m filing stuff and learning how to make better use of this iPhone 5,

Happy making money!

           [edit July20,'13, the above mentioned names were neither
                      requested nor paid for]

More difficulties than normal

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I have clicked on "Preformatted", 3 seconds ago.

Interesting, a good way to make a line disappear seems to be to 
click "Prefomatted" then hit return.

But maybe these types of occurrences are normal for a site like this.  Maybe other users have become accustomed to having about twenty problems in a space          sixty minutes
                   of about                 I don't know.
But I do know that if this doesn't change to soon...  
           
Maybe it's the energy that's surrounding  me.  Maybe, because I stated that I intend to make/get 12 $trillion that much of the energy that surrounds me when I do anything 
     that could enable me to MAKE MONEY,
                    freaks out.
                       
I do not know.
When I use a different computer like at the internet cafe I went to
I still had problems with this site.
                      While I'm at home I have been having problems
                                  with sending messages on Facebook.Today, on a new email site, I noticed there isn't a link
                            to change one's cell phone number.
                          Apparently, though, other users have had the same issue.  
        
So maybe it's not just me.  Or maybe it wasn't just me in the previous example.

IS ANYONE ELSE HAVING MORE DIFFICULTIES IN LIFE THAN NORMAL?   
 

Things To Remember On Site (to june13,’13)

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1) Presently I’m stuck using an unfamiliar computer.                                                              (Mac is ‘in the ‘shop,       WordPress app looks nice                                                             on my iphone V,
but I couldn’t find a means to edit, and the regular 
     site via iPhone V is  too difficult to do any editing or see how it’s going to look when
     the draft is posted.
                                                                 easy
2) Always use a title that will make it          for me and others
      to figure out what’s on the
    post.

3) Remind myself that all of my posts have not been pre-written.  I do the best that I can
     in the allotted time, and then I post it.  My practising is my post.

4) Avoid expecting
                        to be perfect during this allotted time.  
                                                       Each post  is another 
                        experience in my life.  
                                          The most successfull 
                                          have also made the most mistakes.    Mistakes are opportunities.    

4) **So far the preformatted Draft, does not look the same in the peview and in this box
  I am 
     presently typing in.
(I’ll find out in a minute if the the actual post is the same as
     the draft, but different than the preview.)